Cathedral Etiquette

Proper behavior for places of worship

General Etiquette for Visiting Places of Worship

• Be aware and considerate of those who are praying or worshipping

• Your phone should be switched to silent upon entering a cathedral 

• Don't chew gum or use a cell phone (texting or talking)

  • Some cathedrals allow no-flash photography, be sure to follow the signs and directions 

• Dress modestly 
  • Follow the directive signs (usually placed outside)
  • Generally these should be covered:
    • your legs above the knee
    • your shoulders

• Whisper and refrain from unnecessary conversation

• Don't walk in front of others praying

• Don't walk across or in front of the altar
   

Worship Etiquette

• Lighting Candles
  • Typically worshippers light them when entering the cathedral
  • Worshippers light them as they pray, making an offering to accompany their prayers
  • There are certain times, when candles should not be lit (usually during the service); ask a church usher if in doubt 

• Venerating (kissing) icons

  • It is traditional for worshipers to venerate (kiss) the icons located in the narthex

  • You don't have to do this

  • If you do venerate an icon,

  • Remember it is improper to kiss an icon on the face

  • You should blot any lipstick beforehand

During a Service

• Dress appropriately

  • For men: wear a suit and tie or a sports jackets and slacks with a tie

  • For women: Have your shoulders covered, and dresses/skirts should be knee length or longer.

• Arrive at the church before the service starts

• During the service, there are some moments when no one should be moving around

  • One basic rule: whenever the priest faces the people or is outside the altar on the solea, either censing or blessing, everyone should stand wherever they are

• Blot lipstick before venerating (kissing) icons, receiving communion, kissing the cross, or kissing the clergyman’s hand.

• Refrain from chewing gum or using a cell phone/camera during a service

• Refrain from slouching or crossing your legs
• If you choose to receive the Holy Communion, you should eat it carefully so no crumbs fall
• Don't leave the church before dismissal